Tuesday, June 10, 2008

CASe 1.. pls comment..


Tonight cant sleep well..suddenly think of a case..need some advise and comment over here..

S and H are once a best friend back in 2002 but due to some reasons , their relationship eventually become bad dunno since when.....
And here come E , a good talkative friend who is same horoscope with S..they have many things to talk to , although they have nvr been same class but they act lile they have know ech other since 10 years before..(weird right)...H and E was later become close friend as well , H is a quite sensitive girl , so every1 trying to protect her from being hurt..E is protecting her well..they eventually become close..S dunno y start to leave the circle of them as she feel that some1 else need more attention in their circle..

1 day, S went for a vacation in the place where E stayed -- M country ..a 2 month holiday, As S dun wish to go home so early.. so she decided to look for E for a vacation of 1 week..at the M country , S found out that H is actually jealous bout it or erm..(dunno how to describe) just simply "bo song" or simply protective towars her friend, E..H told E that S is actually memperalatkan E as S dun wish to back home so early..( S does not want to go back home so early due to some reason..this is a fact..and S admit it ).

H herself also went to M country and stayed with E..is it H go means she is not memperalat E ??? S go means she is memperalat E ???

When S knew tat H actually said this to E , she really upset..S really cant understand y will H said that S is MEMPERALATKAN E..this make S really really hurt..and S just keep it to herself..she din asked E anything either..Best freind...this is called friendssss?????
wats the meaning is friends for ???

Tell S pls..is she memperalatkan E ???
IS SHE ?????
S need some advise..S have been thinking it over and over...
S cant understand..pls help her..

8 comments:

C~H said...

Well does S usually keep in touch with E?First of all S should ask herself izzit S using E in the first place.If S feel that she isn't using E then is ok and don't care what H had said.H might not forget the reasons that caused the friendship between S and H become bad.H is just a culprit that want to spoilt the friendship between S and E since the friendship between S and H already got worst back to the days. If E is a good friend then E will not just listen to what H had said and will use her eyes to see and feel it whether S is using herself?As from the case that i read,i felt that H isn't a good friend to be and not worth to be treasure.A good friend is someone that never say bad things behind you and always be there to share happiness and sadness.Usually people have alot of hi and bye friends but how many true friends do they have actually?What i can said is that 1 true friends is better than 100 hi and bye friends.Well,S do treasure the friends that u think that they are real friend because in life we does not have many chance to meet real friend and is very hard as well.Hope my comment may help S.

selina @ yenhooi said...

S And E are best friends..if not she also won go to find her for vacation right ?? u think S so "kau bin poay" o..haha..

S also dunno is this call MEMPERALAT as she thinks that friends and meant to help each other..share everything but not using..really dunno y there is ppl saying S like taht..its really upset for S.....='(

C~H said...

haha..Then since S n E are best friends then why bother what H said wor. Then S just go to country M to find her best friend there is nothing wrong with that rite?Yea S are rite friends are meant to help each other n share ups n downs..the mouth is on H so don't bother what H said lo..S don't be upset d ler..H is not worth for S to be upset ler.."Suan le ba,zi chung peng you yau pu yau pu yong ching de"...hope S know what i mean cause my chinese very poor...lolz...

selina @ yenhooi said...

thanks yea..i got wat u mean..but H and E also is clos friend

S just hope 3 of them can be very good friends just like S>H>E>
but it won seems will come true one day also..this dream..

selina @ yenhooi said...
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C~H said...

U're welcome...SHE need to talk face to face only can de..then now i think E is in the middle between S and H lo..very hard for E..both also close friend...

Jack Tan said...

wahhhh so complicated i need help... i'm lost

jojoe said...

u mean you do not wanted to go back so soon so you went to find E?
erm..then H called it "S using E". friends can be called in many words. using, helping , caring..the different is how you really treated your friend. if it is truly best friend we dun call it using, it's helping. even though in this case, you need help, doesnt mean that you are using your friends. if this is so call using, then all of us are using people around us. what friend does is helping each other.

dun worry, H might be using the word to describe you. maybe H needs E more than you does, so H would try to do anything for E. maybe H cant bare to lose E as a friend. then became irational.

E know what's going on. even though maybe E dunno, E's friends will tell. as long as you treated E n H truly then you are no wrong.